As much as women are portrayed through advertisements, music, and movies as sexual objects, men are imagined as objects of ridicule at best and at worst, contempt. Light hearted advertisements targeting women show men making ridiculous purchases as their wives and girl friends shake their head in disbelief. Men struggle to take care of children, fail miserably to keep the kitchen clean, and can't help but ogle every woman within a hundred yards.
While there will always be heroes in movies and on television, unless the male lead is the dashing romantic who women are anxious to fall into bed with, men are inept, bungling, inconsiderate, unfeeling, ready to be trampled upon by the women in their lives.
Gone are the Ward Cleavers and Lucas McCains, who taught their children valuable lessons, while, in Ward's case, his wife was supportive and caring, and in Lucas's, he raised his son Mark on his own.
I suggest we could go a long way toward restoring family values by departing from these trends. We certainly do no one any good by allowing young boys to grow up with images of men as insipid and spineless creatures driven by the basest of instincts and allowing young girls to be inculcated by the sights and sounds of women driven to fit into a size four.
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